Suchness

In Buddhism, the word "suchness" is used to mean "the essence or particular characteristics of a thing or a person, its true nature. "  Each person has his or her suchness.  If we want to live in peace and happiness with a person, we have to see the suchness of that person.  Once we see it, we understand him or her, and there will be no trouble.  We can live peaceful and happily together.